Preparing Sibling for A New Addition in Family

Getting ready for another baby can be tough, for both the parents as well as for the to-be sibling. It’s not only essential for the parents to be physically and mentally prepared for the new addition to the family but also to get your first child mentally ready for what’s to come.

Telling them how and when is up to you. Your child’s age also plays a part. It’s a good idea to start talking about 3-4 months early. You can start by generally chatting with them about babies, and then eventually tell them that your family is going to have one.

It is possible that your child won’t be able to understand exactly when they will have the new member, so you can connect the time and tell them that “the baby will arrive after Grandma’s birthday”.

Tips to Prepare Children For New Baby

Before your new one arrives, help your child feel positive about the baby. Try to make them feel excited and positive for their sibling, so they will understand that it’s not just about the baby, it’s about everybody in the whole family.

Show their childhood pictures to them.

Allow your child to touch your baby bump, when your new one is moving or kicking inside. You can also allow them to listen to your new one’s heartbeat when you visit the doctor.

Read stories about babies. Sit with them, look at your family pictures, and talk about how your family is going to get bigger.

Get help from your child to decorate and prepare your home for the new baby’s arrival.

Encourage your child to socialize and play with other kids. This will help your child in developing social skills and to have a good relationship with their new family member.

How to prepare when the new baby comes home?

Reassurance: Reassure the child by giving a big loving hug to them, before you introduce them to the new member.

Gifts: If your family and friends are bringing gifts for your new one then ask them to bring gifts for your child also. This will make them feel special. Try to bring a small gift from the baby to your child.

Quality Time: Plan to have some quality time with your child to give them some love and attention.

Conclusion

A new baby means your family is growing and everyone needs to adapt to the change. Welcoming a new baby is a natural part of life, teaching your child to learn to adapt and to appreciate every member of the family. These skills help them get along with others. Being a parent you are not just raising a child, you are preparing adults who are going to be kind, responsible, and helpful people in the world.